This post is especially written for a friend of mine who really needs to know this right now.
In general opinion, happiness is synonymous to gratification. Does being content really mean you are happy? Because if it does then as far is mankind is concerned, no one would ever be happy cause there’s no one in this world who has everything he or she ever wanted in life.
Human wants are never ending. One can never settle for the best things in life cause they are always searching for something better than the best. Which is not wrong or immoral. In very plain and simple words ‘ it’s a never ending need.’
A time comes when you really can’t remember the last time you were genuinely happy. And then one blames the circumstances. But if u actually think of it…the greatest part of our happiness depends on our disposition and not our circumstances. And we ourselves are responsible for our outlook in life.
At times we don’t know what exactly do we want form our lives. Do we act conventionally like everyone expects us to? Or do we go our own way? Make our own choices? Then we think to ourselves “ how can I be so selfish?” and that is where everything goes wrong. Cause If we ourselves are not satisfied with our choices how can we ever make others happy?
If you really want to be happy in life you have to be content within yourself. You have to do things your own way. You have to make your own decisions. You might make a lot of enemies in the process. But again, you can’t make anyone happy if you yourself aren’t a happy person.
In general opinion, happiness is synonymous to gratification. Does being content really mean you are happy? Because if it does then as far is mankind is concerned, no one would ever be happy cause there’s no one in this world who has everything he or she ever wanted in life.
Human wants are never ending. One can never settle for the best things in life cause they are always searching for something better than the best. Which is not wrong or immoral. In very plain and simple words ‘ it’s a never ending need.’
A time comes when you really can’t remember the last time you were genuinely happy. And then one blames the circumstances. But if u actually think of it…the greatest part of our happiness depends on our disposition and not our circumstances. And we ourselves are responsible for our outlook in life.
At times we don’t know what exactly do we want form our lives. Do we act conventionally like everyone expects us to? Or do we go our own way? Make our own choices? Then we think to ourselves “ how can I be so selfish?” and that is where everything goes wrong. Cause If we ourselves are not satisfied with our choices how can we ever make others happy?
If you really want to be happy in life you have to be content within yourself. You have to do things your own way. You have to make your own decisions. You might make a lot of enemies in the process. But again, you can’t make anyone happy if you yourself aren’t a happy person.
3 comments:
u shud read paul cohelo's-who will cry when u die......
hye...... nice post!!
i'll be around to ceckout more of urz
"the greatest part of our happiness depends on our disposition and not our circumstances."
insightful.............real gyaan i must say :)
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